Counselling, Family, Life, Love, Marriage, Writing

My thoughts on “What’s Love Got To Do With It?”

loveMy first publication on The Feminist Wire is What’s Love Got To Do With It?

This is my most vulnerable piece, and it was equal parts painful and purging to write. I’m still stunned and touched by the outpouring of support after the publication of my article! Thank you everyone, for your public and private messages to me, and for all of your FB shares. I’m humbled by and grateful for each gesture of support and solidarity, from friends near and far.

It’s hard being so vulnerable in the public sphere, and admittedly, I’m still feeling quite raw, but some stories need to be told. I’m hoping that what I shared will resonate with others like me, and provide some measure of comfort and support. The wounds we carry from our childhoods turn into scars which we bear as adults, and the right people will love us BECAUSE of them.

Please keep my loved ones in your prayers, especially my parents.

 

Refugees, Sci-Fi

Sci-Fi Movie Review: Elysium

Elysium_PosterDirector Neill Blomkamp has once again delivered with Elysium. Matt Damon plays Max Da Costa, one of the many residents of an overpopulated, poverty-stricken Earth. Jodie Foster plays Secretary Delacourt, the glacial defense secretary of Elysium, a space-station designed to be a paradisial playground for the rich. No war, no disease, no poverty. And with Secretary Delacourt in charge, no chance of anyone infiltrating Elysium. Until our underdog protagonist comes along, guns blazing.

Anyone who’s watched District 9 will be familiar with the gut-wrenching sci-fi narratives produced by Blomkamp. Elysium wasn’t as violent as District 9, but it also lacked the deft touch and subtleties which made District 9 so incredible.

If you enjoy a good sci-fi story with a lot of explosive action scenes, then you’ll enjoy Elysium. It’s a lot more heavy-handed than District 9, and it would have done better if we had more time to explore the back-stories of the main characters. Less shooting, and more character exploration, I say.

Spoilers ahead!

It was chilling to watch two of the three illegal shuttles heading towards Elysium getting shot down. Art imitating life, especially with the rising numbers of people dying on the boats to Australia. People smuggling is alive and well, and the best kind of sci-fi/fantasy forces us to reflect on what’s happening in the real world.

Police brutality takes on a whole new meaning in Elysium, with robots literally having no mercy with the human population. Max gets his arm broken in the first ten minutes of the movie because he started mouthing off to the unsympathetic police cop. His conversation with the robot parole officer is even more ludicrous.

Watching the mild-mannered protagonist from District 9 playing a psychotic sleeper agent in Elysium was really jarring. I could barely recognize him! Then I did, and it was kinda creepy. Sharlto Copey is clearly a very versatile actor. You can hear Copey’s thoughts about his role as Kruger in Elysium.

The use of language in Elysium was very clever. Spanish was used by the working class of underprivileged Los Angeles, while up in the paradisial space-station, English, French and German were used by the polished elite. Definite class commentary there. I couldn’t figure out what accent Secretary Delacourt had while she spoke in English. Not quite British, definitely not American, but very…clipped. You can watch Jodie Foster’s interview about Elysium here.

The ending of the movie was just epic. It was heart-wrenching to watch Spider (Wagner Moura) reboot the entire system of Elysium and change Earth’s population’s illegal status to legal. Everyone on Earth became a citizen of Elysium, causing a mass influx of coveted med-bays to be sent down to Earth! Sigh. If only that kind of technology was really available.

I’m looking forward to Blomkamp’s next sci-fi movie – Chappie.

Blomkamp previously said that “Chappie” will be a “touching” story, “but, you know, fraught with gunfire.”

LOL.

Fantasy, freelance, Sci-Fi

Daily Science Fiction – my story made it to the second round!

logo-highlightRaidah,

We have good news and we have bad news. The good news is that your story has made our second round, rarified company that more than 90% of submissions do not reach. While half or more of our second round stories will not ultimately see publication under the DSF rocket, this story has reached the final go/no-go before launch.

The bad news–and I promised you some bad news–is that it will take us time to make that final decision. Expect an additional two weeks or so, but don’t be surprised if it’s a month from today. Thanks for your continued patience, and thanks for sending us this worthy submission.

 – Jonathan & Michele, Daily Science Fiction

I’m hopeful that my flash fiction urban fantasy story will get published, but if not – hey, it made it 90% of the way. If there’s something I’ve learned through my freelance career as a writer, it’s this – celebrate every milestone! In something as amorphous as a writing career, it’s easy to feel disheartened by rejection, or the very long response times from editors. Keep at it, and live in hope that your stories will meet the light of day.

art, Beauty, History, Islam, Islamic Museum of Australia, JAAN, Life, Mustafa Davis

Review of JAAN Arts Week

1095078_10151807695326352_1187936795_nOne word – awesome.

Although I attended only two of the JAAN Revival Of The Islamic Arts events, I came away energised, inspired, and motivated to continue on my own journey as a writer, poet, and artist. The international guest speaker, Mustafa Davis, gave a great photography workshop last Wednesday and it was good to see the man behind the photographs.

One thing I’ll take away from the workshop is something one of his mentors told him:

If you wanna shoot more interesting photos, be a more interesting person.

Sounds ridiculously obvious, right? But it’s very sage advice. Photography, like all other art forms, is an expression of the artist. Good art comes from a place of honesty and vulnerability. Creating more authentic art is directly linked with our own authenticity as human beings. His honesty about having a difficult childhood really resonated with me, and so did his description of photography being the only way he knew how to express himself emotionally. Writing has always been my outlet.

Random note: He must have used the phrase ‘pretentious photographers’ at least a dozen times during the workshop! I appreciated his attitude that if we put our minds to it and practice, we can all take fantastic photographs. Great photography isn’t just for the…pretentious photographers lol. He made it very clear that it took him a long time to reach the level he’s at now, so that’s encouraging for any of us who are just starting out on an artistic endeavour. Keep at it, and the fruits will come.

Mustafa Davis will be coming back to Sydney in December, so if you’re in any way interested in photography, I can assure you that you’ll enjoy his workshop. I was lucky enough to chat to him after the workshop and I’ll be mulling over what he said to me as I develop my writing, poetry and photography. More on that later.

The Thursday night JAAN Q&A was another great experience. It was  refreshing to hear the thoughts of all the panelists. Whether or not they identify overtly with being a Muslim artist, each has a unique story to tell, and their story is inevitably influenced by the lens of Islam. Being a student of knowledge myself, it was inspiring to learn that Mustafa Davis studied Islam at the hands of scholars for ten years. So in addition to producing films and shooting photographs, he also teaches fiqh on the weekend! Plus, he’s also married and has four children. All in all, I’m glad I’ve finally found an artistic role model and mentor.

Thank you to the panelists, JAAN and IMA crew! Here’s to more events, and to more forward-thinking discussions about art within the Muslim community, and beyond.

Memorable quotes from the night:

Confines can make you a better artist, versus a free-for-all…look at it [boundaries of Islam] as a benefit, and your art will flourish. Mustafa Davis

You get abuse when you challenge people’s worldviews. If you’re comfortable in your beliefs, you won’t care. – Amal Awad

Is writing about sin encouraging sin? Clarify your intentions for every piece. – Zeynab Gamieldien

It’s not revival we’re really looking at….can’t keep looking back. We need a new conversation. – Nazeen Reehman

Singing is da’wah. – Hameed Attai

Fantasy, Sci-Fi, Writing

Strange Horizons article – Don’t just write one story

indexEid Mubarak to one and all!

Over the weekend, I’ve realised that there are some AMAZING science-fiction and fantasy magazines out there. Here’s a Top Ten Science Fiction Magazines list to point you to the right direction. With my recent focus on writing non-fiction pieces, I’ve forgotten how fun it is to be immersed in the world of sci-fi/fantasy, and how enjoyable it is to write in that genre.

I’ve been enjoying the stories on Clarkesworld Magazine as well as Daily Science Fiction. Personally, I’m a fan of flash fiction (1000 words), but I’m also liking the longer pieces. I really liked this flash fiction piece – Zombie Widows.

On the topic of writing for these SF mags, I read a funny and encouraging piece on Strange Horizons by Jed Hartman –  Don’t just write one story. Check it out! His article encourages writers to keep writing and submitting to different magazines to increase the likelihood of publication. Sounds pretty obvious, right? In a sense, it is (teachers teach, writers write), but it’s easy to get bogged down while waiting for a response from one particular SF mag.  Response times may vary from a few weeks at the very earliest to a few months. Plus, knowing that you’ve got several other stories sent out to different mags makes rejection a lot easier to handle. Don’t give up!

I need to make a spreadsheet of the different stories and articles I’ve sent out, and the estimated times the various editors will take to get back to me….

 

 

Refugees

We’re all boat people!

418179_LargeCheck out this great article by John Pilger –  Australia’s stop the boats policy is cynical and lawless. He nailed it right on the head. Except for Aborigines, everyone in Australia came in some kind of boat (or plane). It’s so sad that I’m living in a country with such rampant racism and so much fear-mongering. Really, what ever happened to giving people a ‘fair go’? Or does that only apply to the right kind of people? There are obviously the wrong kind of people; the ones who are left to drown so close to our shores, and the ones abandoned in detention camps.

As an Australian citizen, it makes me wonder who I’m going to vote for when September comes. It’s either Rudd or Abbott, and both aren’t exactly shining beacons for humanity. Voting for Kevin Rudd makes me sick, but I’ll do it anyway echoes my sentiments.

Times like this, I wonder if alien invasion is needed to level out the playing field. You know, nothing like a healthy dose of intergalactic terror to make the world realise that HEY WE ARE ALL HUMAN SO LET’S PLAY NICE! Maybe that’s why I really enjoyed the Mass Effect video game series. Humanity was finally united. We were the immature species compared to the other aliens who figured out awesome technology way before we did.

Sigh. If this is how the government treats the most vulnerable sectors of humanity, then we’ve got a long way to go.

* note: I don’t really believe in aliens. Really.

art, Islamic Museum of Australia, Mustafa Davis

Mustafa Davis is coming to Australia!

MD-LOGO-CIRCLEThe extremely talented American photographer Mustafa Davis will be holding a one-night only workshop in Sydney and Melbourne. His work is gritty, evocative and compelling, and now you’ve got the chance to learn from the master himself.

Have you always wondered how to capture that perfect photo? Bring your camera and learn what it takes to create a compelling image. This 2.5 hour workshop is geared towards beginners who want to learn how to create great images. Internationally renowned photographer and filmmaker Mustafa Davis will explain the different genres of photography and the tools and settings you will need for each genre. And for those of you who are keen, he will critique your images and explain what you can do to make your images even better.

Wednesday 14 August 2013

Rehearsal Studio 2, Bankstown Arts Centre, 5 Olympic Parade, Bankstown.

6:30-9:00 pm

The cost of the workshop is a tax deductible donation of $50 to be paid as a donation to IMA through the link http://www.donate8.com.au/

Act fast, because there are only 20 spaces left. For more info or to register, contact Nadine Kanaan on 0415660889 and start donating! This workshop is presented by Islamic Museum of Australia and supported by Mission of Hope’s JAAN (Justice and Arts Network). For more information on Mustafa Davis, visit his website: http://www.mustafadavis.com

Family, Islam, Life

Ramadan Mubarak/Selamat Berpuasa!

Today marks Day 1 of t1099108_ramadan_3he blessed month of Ramadan 2013/1434 AH (after Hijrah). Welcome, O Month of Mercy! May we live to see many, many more.

Here’s a beautiful reminder of the Prophet’s (peace and blessings be upon him) sermon during Ramadan.

Looking back on my globe-trotting life, I’ve fasted in a range of different countries: Singapore, Jordan and Australia. From the northern hemisphere, to the equator, and then the southern hemisphere lol. Fasting in the heat of the Arabian summer sure wasn’t a breeze, but something about Ramadan and its winds of mercy made things a lot easier. There’s also something to be said about the body acclimatizing to wherever we happen to be. Ramadan Mubarak to my friends in Jordan! May we be reunited soon 🙂

Coming back to the present, it’s yet another cold winter day in Sydney, which make it a lot easier to abstain from food and water. Back in the 90s, when I was in highschool, we broke our fasts around 8 pm. That was hard, especially compared to the 5:30 pm iftar of the winter months.

Here’s a list of some of my Ramadan goals:

1) Read Qur’an daily, and aim to complete it.

2) Have iftar with my family and in-laws twice a week.

3) Be nice to people.

4) Go to Auburn mosque for tarawih.

Aside from seeing my family and Irfan’s family at iftars, we’re pretty solitary during Ramadan. I think it’s because time is short – by the time Irfan gets home from work to break fast with me, we pray maghrib, eat some more, then get ready to leave for isha and tarawih prayers in Auburn. I apologise in advance to those gracious enough to extend iftar invitations to us!

On another note, I LOVE AUBURN MOSQUE. Let me just add that in caps. I feel like I’m in Turkey, for a start, and hearing the salutations upon the Prophet (peace be upon him) as we rest in between tarawih sets is so, so beautiful. For those who wish to pray there, isha prayer starts at 7 pm. Have a blessed month!

 

Love, Marriage, Poetry, Short story

The Drum – a literary magazine for your ears

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I’ve recently stumbled across a wonderful literary magazine called The Drum. Check it out! Being an avid fan of all things literary, I’ve come to really enjoy my stopovers at The Drum. Each poem/essay is unique; some poignant, others hilarious.

I really enjoyed Jane Hamilton’s essay “Finding Forgiveness In a Ziploc”. Her heartwarming reflection on marriage revolves around an incident at the airport with her husband and a ziploc bag. While listening to her voice, I was a fly on the wall during the dramatic, stress-induced culmination of 26 years of her marriage. That being said, I’m all for happy endings, and her thoughtful, honest and funny essay left me with a wonderful sense of hope.